Safety Notice

Our Safety Commitment

Last updated: February 27, 2026

Vetted is a dating app where women rate men after dates across five categories: Respect, Effort, Conversation, Honesty, and Appearance Accuracy. Date with confidence. We built Vetted because trust matters in dating, and overlapping social circles can create unique privacy and safety risks. This Safety Notice is here to help you use Vetted more safely—online and offline.

Safety overrides growth. We design and operate Vetted with a safety-first approach. That includes building in safety tools (Block, Report, Safety Check-In, Safety Center resources, Photo Verification), scanning and moderation workflows, and a clear enforcement ladder for rule-breaking behavior.

What we build into the product

Safety on a dating app is never one feature—it’s many layers working together. Vetted includes:

• Block: immediate, bidirectional, and silent; accessible from profile and chat.
• Report: reason category + free text; accessible from profile and chat; triggers moderation review.
• Safety Check-In: a timer you set before a meetup; designed to prompt you to check in and optionally notify an emergency contact if you don’t respond.
• Safety Center: crisis hotlines, safety resources, and tips.
• Photo Verification: selfie liveness checks intended to reduce catfishing (but not to guarantee identity).
• Moderation: automated scanning for safety signals on uploaded media and human review of user reports, with enforcement up to permanent bans.

What we can and cannot guarantee

We work hard to reduce harm, but we cannot eliminate risk. Vetted cannot guarantee that:

• someone is who they claim to be (even if they have a verification badge);
• someone’s intentions are honest or safe;
• any meetup will be safe;
• someone won’t take screenshots or record content (even though it violates our rules); or
• all harmful behavior will be detected before it affects someone.

Shared responsibility: safety is a shared responsibility between the platform and the community. We provide tools, standards, and enforcement. You control what you share, how quickly you meet, and whether you proceed when something feels off. This notice provides practical steps you can take.

Transparency about limitations

We will be transparent about the limits of our tools. For example: a Safety Check-In timer may not work if push notifications are off, if your phone has no signal, or if your device is out of battery. Similarly, a block prevents contact inside Vetted, but it cannot stop someone from contacting you off-platform if you shared your phone number or socials. Use multiple safety layers, not just one.

Online Safety Fundamentals

Protect your personal information early

Early conversations are when you know the least. A good default is: share less until trust is earned. You can always share more later; it’s much harder to undo oversharing.

Consider keeping these details private until you’ve built trust (and ideally until after you’ve met in a public place at least once):

• home address, exact apartment/unit, gate codes, or landmarks that identify where you live;
• workplace details (especially if your workplace is small or public-facing);
• your last name, full legal name, and ID documents;
• financial details (banking, Venmo/Cash App history, salary, debt, credit issues);
• travel itinerary and real-time “I’m alone at ___” updates;
• hotel name and room number (especially for visitors);
• private or sensitive family information; and
• anything you would not want repeated or screenshotted.

Notice “too much, too fast” patterns

A common manipulation pattern is intensity without earned trust. Be cautious if someone quickly pushes for:

• moving off-app immediately (“text me now,” “give me your number,” “DM my Instagram”);
• private photos right away, especially if they pressure you or imply you “owe” them;
• sharing your location pin, address, hotel, or a secluded meetup;
• money, gift cards, “help,” or investment/crypto opportunities; or
• secrets and isolation (“don’t tell anyone,” “keep this between us”).

You don’t have to justify boundaries. A safe, clear response is: “I’m not comfortable sharing that yet.” If they push, that’s useful information.

Keep conversations on-platform at first

Staying on-platform initially helps you:

• use Block and Report easily if something escalates;
• avoid giving someone your phone number, which can be used to find other accounts or personal info;
• reduce the risk of harassment through repeated calls/texts; and
• preserve evidence in one place if you need to report.

Reverse image search and social media linking risks

If you use profile photos that also appear on public social profiles, someone can screenshot and run a reverse image search to find your name, workplace, or family. If privacy is important (especially if you’re not out), consider using photos that are not posted publicly elsewhere.

Sharing Instagram handles, Facebook profiles, or other socials can unintentionally reveal your full name, mutual connections, workplace, location history, and photos with friends or family. If you choose to share socials, do it when trust is earned—and consider using privacy settings to limit what a stranger can see.

Location sharing risks

Vetted is location-based. Even when an app shows “distance” rather than an address, location info can still be sensitive—especially in low-density areas or small communities. To protect your privacy:

• avoid sending your live location, a map pin, or a screenshot of your exact location early on;
• meet in public places rather than giving directions to your home or hotel;
• be mindful that photos can reveal location through backgrounds (signs, unique buildings, beaches, trailheads) even without GPS data;
• if you are a visitor, don’t disclose your room number or exact accommodations to someone you haven’t met.

Assume screenshots and recordings are possible

Even if screenshotting or redistributing content violates our Terms of Service and Community Guidelines, it can still happen. Before sending anything (especially explicit photos, private photos, or identifying details), ask yourself: “Would I be okay if this were saved or shared?” If the answer is “no,” don’t send it.

Before You Meet

Verify someone is real

There is no perfect method to confirm a person’s identity online, but you can reduce risk by layering simple checks:

• Look for consistency: do their photos, bio, and conversation details match over time? Do they avoid basic questions?
• Photo Verification badge: a badge can reduce some catfishing, but it does not confirm legal name, background, or intent.
• Video call first: if you’re planning to meet, a short video call can confirm they resemble their profile and can help you assess vibe and boundaries.
• Ask a “real-world” question: something simple about the area or neighborhood they claim to be in—people faking location often give vague answers.

If someone refuses reasonable verification steps while pressuring you to meet quickly (especially in a private place), treat that as a red flag.

Tell a friend and share a plan

For first meetings, consider sharing a “date plan” with someone you trust:

• who you’re meeting (profile screenshot or name on the app);
• where you’re meeting (public place name);
• when you expect to be home; and
• how they should reach you if they don’t hear from you.

If you’re not out and you need discretion, you can still choose a trusted person who respects your privacy. Safety planning doesn’t require outing yourself widely.

Don’t rely solely on the app

Use app tools (Block, Report, Safety Check-In), but also use real-world safety habits: keep your phone charged, have your own transportation, and meet in public places. An app can support safety, but it cannot replace your judgment or emergency services.

Research meeting locations and check practical constraints

Especially for visitors (or for meetups outside your usual area), take 2–3 minutes to check:

• parking availability and whether the area is busy at the time you’re meeting;
• cell coverage (some beaches, valleys, and trails have limited service);
• how you will leave if you want to exit quickly; and
• what time the location closes or becomes isolated.

Trust your instincts—your “no” is enough

You are always allowed to slow down, reschedule, move the location to somewhere more public, or cancel entirely. You do not owe anyone a meetup, a ride, or an explanation. If something feels off, treat that feeling as a safety signal.

Meeting In Person

Choose public places for first meetings

A strong default for a first meetup is: public, populated, and predictable. Good first-meeting locations are places with other people around, clear entry/exit paths, and staff nearby. Examples include coffee shops, casual restaurants, or well-trafficked beachfront parks.

Tip: For first meetings, avoid isolated trailheads, secluded areas, and remote locations—especially at night. Some areas can have limited cell service, fewer bystanders, and delayed emergency response.

Transportation safety

Whenever possible, have your own way to leave:

• drive yourself, use rideshare, or take transit in a way that you control;
• avoid getting into someone’s car for a first meetup if you don’t know them;
• if you do choose to ride with someone, tell a friend and use Safety Check-In.

If you’re a visitor, be especially careful about accepting rides from someone you just met. If you’re unfamiliar with the area, it’s harder to evaluate where you are or how to leave.

Alcohol and substance awareness

Alcohol and substances can reduce your ability to assess risk and enforce boundaries. Safer practices include:

• set a limit before you start drinking;
• avoid accepting open drinks from strangers;
• keep your drink in your sight (don’t leave it unattended);
• if you feel unexpectedly intoxicated or unwell, seek help immediately from staff or a friend.

If someone pressures you to drink or use substances, that is a valid reason to leave.

Use Safety Check-In and keep an exit plan

If you’re meeting in person, consider setting a Safety Check-In timer before you arrive. Also consider a simple exit plan:

• park or position yourself so you can leave without needing someone’s help;
• keep your phone charged and accessible (not buried in a bag);
• decide in advance what “I’m leaving” looks like (a line you can say and a path to leave).

Your right to change your mind

You can always change your mind about where to go, what to do, or whether to continue. If you want to leave, you can say: “I’m heading out—take care,” and then leave. You don’t need to debate it.

Consent and Boundaries

Consent is ongoing, specific, and revocable

Consent is not a one-time yes. Consent must be present every step of the way and can be withdrawn at any time. This applies to physical contact, sex, sharing photos, and sharing personal information.

• Ongoing: a yes earlier doesn’t mean yes later.
• Specific: consent to kissing is not consent to anything else.
• Revocable: you can say “stop” or “not anymore” at any time.
• Enthusiastic: “I guess” or silence is not a meaningful yes.

Pressure is not consent

If someone pressures you, guilt-trips you, threatens to leave, threatens to out you, or uses emotional manipulation, that is not consent. If you experience this, you can end the interaction, leave, and use Block/Report.

Substance-impaired consent

If someone is significantly intoxicated or impaired, they may not be able to consent. A safer approach is to pause, stop, and ensure everyone is sober enough to communicate clearly. If someone tries to use impairment to override boundaries, prioritize safety and exit.

Responding when boundaries aren’t respected

If someone pushes past boundaries:

1. State the boundary once, clearly (“No,” “Stop,” “I’m not comfortable with that”).
2. Create distance (step back, move toward brighter/public areas, get near staff or other people).
3. End the interaction (leave; call a friend; call 911 if you are in immediate danger).
4. Document and report (save messages, take screenshots, and report in-app when safe).

Digital consent and Private Photos

Private Photos on Vetted are consent-gated: someone must request access and you must affirmatively grant it. Consent can be revoked at any time. Even if you granted access, the recipient does not have the right to screenshot, save, or redistribute your photos. If someone pressures you for Private Photos or threatens you, stop engaging and report them.

Sexual Health

Talk openly and without shame

Sexual health conversations can be awkward, but they’re a normal part of adult dating. Safer, respectful conversations can include:

• when you last got tested and what you were tested for;
• whether you use condoms and what safer sex looks like for you;
• PrEP, PEP, and other prevention tools;
• boundaries around substances and consent.

People have different comfort levels about discussing HIV status, STI history, or prevention methods. A good approach is to share your own practices and ask what someone prefers—without pressure or stigma.

Testing and prevention resources

If you want testing or information, the CDC provides a testing locator tool to find confidential testing and treatment services near you, including PrEP information and referrals.

PrEP, PEP, and other tools

PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) can reduce the risk of acquiring HIV for people who are HIV-negative and at risk. PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) is time-sensitive and is generally most effective when started as soon as possible after potential exposure (often within 72 hours). Talk to a clinician about what is right for you. The CDC provides up-to-date information about PrEP and PEP: CDC PrEP and CDC PEP.

Condoms, lube, and STI prevention

Condoms and lube remain effective tools for reducing STI transmission risk during many sexual activities. Different prevention methods work for different people. If you’re unsure what’s best for you, a local clinic can help you make a plan based on your health, boundaries, and preferences.

Protecting Your Privacy

Social circles overlap—privacy deserves extra care

Your match might know your coworker, friend, or ex. That doesn’t mean you can’t date—it just means you may want to use privacy settings thoughtfully and share personal details at a pace that feels safe.

Outing is a serious safety concern

Threats to out someone—or actually outing them—can cause real harm. If someone threatens to out you, threatens to share screenshots, or uses your identity as leverage, treat it as coercion. Save evidence and report them in-app. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

What Vetted does (and does not) do for privacy

Vetted is designed to reduce unnecessary exposure:

• No social graph imports: we don’t import your contacts or connect to Facebook/Instagram to find friends.
• No real-name requirement for display: you can choose how you present yourself on your profile.
• Private Photos are consent-gated: you control who can see them and can revoke access.
• Incognito Mode (premium): designed to limit profile visibility in certain contexts; it is not invisibility and cannot prevent screenshots.

Learn more about how data is handled in our Privacy Policy and the rules for misuse in our Terms of Service.

Notification privacy: protect your lock screen

If you’re not out or you want discretion, your phone settings matter. Consider:

• turning off message previews on your lock screen;
• using a device passcode/biometric lock;
• keeping your OS and apps updated; and
• avoiding shared devices or shared Apple/Google accounts where notifications can appear elsewhere.

Private Photos: trust and control

Private Photos can be empowering, but they also have risk. A safe approach is:

• share Private Photos only after a conversation feels respectful;
• avoid including face, tattoos, or unique identifiers if that could endanger you;
• never share Private Photos in response to pressure, threats, or “proof” demands;
• revoke access immediately if someone behaves disrespectfully.

Recognizing Scams and Manipulation

Romance scams

Romance scams often use fast intimacy to create urgency and leverage. Common signs:

• they move extremely fast (“I’ve never felt this way,” “you’re my soulmate”) while avoiding basic facts;
• they ask for money, “help,” or financial information;
• they claim an emergency (medical bills, flights, lost wallet) and ask you to send funds;
• they push you to communicate off-app, especially to encrypted or disappearing-message apps.

Rule of thumb: don’t send money, gift cards, crypto, or “help with travel” to someone you haven’t met and verified in real life.

Sextortion and photo blackmail

Sextortion is when someone pressures you for explicit photos and then threatens to share them unless you pay money or comply with demands. Signs include:

• they push for explicit photos quickly;
• they try to get your phone number, socials, workplace, or family connections;
• they suddenly threaten to send screenshots to your contacts;
• they demand money, gift cards, or more photos “to prove loyalty.”

If sextorted: stop engaging, save evidence, report them in-app, and consider contacting law enforcement—especially if threats are credible or if you fear immediate harm.

Catfishing red flags

• their photos look like stock images or influencer content and don’t match daily life;
• they refuse video calls or make excuses repeatedly;
• their location story doesn’t make sense (especially for visitors);
• they avoid meeting in public but push for private settings.

Crypto, investment, and “business opportunity” scams

Any “invest with me,” “I can teach you crypto,” or “send funds and I’ll multiply it” pitch is a major red flag. These scams often look polished and may involve screenshots of fake profits. A dating app is not an appropriate place for financial solicitation.

Gift card scams and “I’m stuck” scenarios

“I’m stranded and need a gift card” is a classic scam pattern. Another variant: “I’m visiting and my bank account is frozen—can you help me?” Don’t send gift cards, cash, or account access.

What to do if you’re targeted

1. Stop engaging if the conversation turns coercive, sexual-blackmail-driven, or financial.
2. Save evidence (screenshots, usernames, dates, and what was asked/threatened).
3. Block and report in the app.
4. Tell a trusted person—scams thrive in secrecy and shame.
5. If immediate danger exists, call 911.

Recognizing Abuse and Coercive Control

Abuse can start subtly

Abuse and coercive control often begin with small boundary tests:

• jealousy framed as affection (“I just care so much”);
• monitoring (“why didn’t you respond right away?”);
• pressure to isolate (discouraging you from friends or support);
• shaming you for boundaries (“you’re paranoid,” “you’re not serious”).

Outing threats are abuse

In tight-knit communities, threats to out someone can be especially dangerous. If someone threatens to expose your identity, messages, photos, or orientation, treat it as serious coercion. Save evidence, block/report, and seek support.

Digital abuse patterns

Digital abuse can include:

• demanding passwords or access to your phone;
• requesting you share your live location continuously;
• checking your messages or insisting you prove who you’re talking to;
• using screenshots to shame or control you.

Healthy relationships do not require surveillance. If someone tries to control your digital life, that’s a warning sign.

Escalation patterns

Abuse can escalate from pressure to threats. If you notice escalation—especially threats, stalking behavior, or fear of physical harm—prioritize safety planning, seek support, and consider involving law enforcement or victim advocacy services.

Using Vetted’s Safety Tools

Block

Blocking is the fastest way to stop contact inside Vetted. Our Block feature is designed to be: immediate, bidirectional (both accounts are separated), and silent (the other person is not notified).

How to block someone

1. Open the person’s profile or open the chat with them.
2. Tap the menu (often shown as “⋯” or a shield icon, depending on your device).
3. Select Block.
4. Confirm when prompted.

What happens when you block

• Your match connection is ended and messaging is stopped.
• Each account is removed from the other’s visible discovery and chat contexts.
• The other person is not told “you blocked them,” but they may infer it if you disappear.
• Blocking does not prevent off-platform contact if you shared your phone number or social accounts.

Report

Reporting helps us investigate abuse and enforce rules under the Community Guidelines and Terms of Service. Reports are especially important when:

• someone threatens you, harasses you, or stalks you;
• someone pressures you for money or explicit content;
• someone shares non-consensual content;
• someone appears underage;
• someone impersonates another person;
• someone uses hate speech or targets you for identity.

How to report someone

1. Open the person’s profile or open the chat.
2. Tap the Report option.
3. Choose a reason category (for example: harassment, hate, spam/scam, impersonation, underage concerns, non-consensual content, threats, or other).
4. Add free-text details: what happened, when, and why it concerns you. Specific details help us act faster.
5. Submit the report. If you are also blocking, block after reporting (or report after blocking), whichever feels safest in the moment.

What happens after a report

Reports are reviewed using a combination of automated signals and human moderation. We may:

• remove specific content (photos, media);
• restrict features (messaging, discovery visibility);
• apply account visibility limits (including shadow bans);
• temporarily suspend the account; or
• permanently ban the account for serious violations.

For privacy and safety reasons, we may not be able to tell you the outcome of a report, but your report matters and may contribute to pattern-based enforcement.

Safety Check-In timer

Safety Check-In is designed to support real-world meetups. It is not emergency services and is not guaranteed to work in every situation (for example, if notifications are off or there is no signal).

How to set Safety Check-In

1. Before you leave to meet, open the Safety Check-In feature (typically from the Safety Center or a “shield”/safety menu).
2. Set a timer for when you want to be prompted (for example, 30 minutes, 1 hour, or when you expect to be heading home).
3. Optionally add an emergency contact (someone you trust) if the feature offers that option.
4. Start the timer. Keep your phone charged and notifications enabled for best reliability.

What happens at each escalation step

Safety Check-In is designed to follow a staged escalation:

• Step 1: At timer expiration, Vetted sends you a push notification reminding you to check in.
• Step 2: If you don’t dismiss or confirm within a short window, the app may send a follow-up prompt (for example, “Are you okay?”) when you next open the app and/or an additional reminder notification.
• Step 3 (optional): If you set an emergency contact and you still don’t respond, the app may offer to notify or may automatically notify your chosen contact depending on the configuration you selected. This alert is intended to prompt a real human who knows you to check on you—not to replace 911.

How to dismiss Safety Check-In

When you receive a Safety Check-In prompt, follow the in-app instructions to confirm you’re okay and dismiss the timer. If you still want reminders, you can set another timer.

Safety Center

The Safety Center is a dedicated place in the app for:

• quick access to Block and Report guidance,
• Safety Check-In setup,
• crisis and local support resources, and
• practical dating safety tips.

If you’re in immediate danger, do not rely on browsing Safety Center content—call 911.

Photo Verification

Photo Verification uses a selfie liveness process intended to reduce catfishing. A verification badge means an account completed our verification flow at a point in time. It does not verify legal identity, background, or intent. If someone behaves suspiciously even with a badge, trust your instincts and use safety tools.

If Something Goes Wrong

If you feel unsafe right now

1. Get to safety: move to a public area, near staff, near bystanders, or into a locked vehicle if appropriate.
2. Call for help: if you are in immediate danger, call 911.
3. Contact someone you trust: a friend, family member, or your emergency contact.
4. End the interaction: leave. You do not need permission.

Local police non-emergency numbers

If it is not an emergency but you need to contact police, look up your local non-emergency police dispatch number. If you are unsure which number to call, or if there is any immediate threat, call 911.

Crisis and assault resources

If you experienced sexual assault or need immediate support, consider contacting:

• RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673
• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Preserve evidence

If something happened and you may want to report it (to Vetted or to law enforcement), preserving evidence can help:

• take screenshots of messages, profiles, usernames, and threats (including timestamps if visible);
• write down what happened while it’s fresh (time, place, names, descriptions);
• don’t delete messages until you’ve captured what you may need;
• if there are injuries, seek medical care and document injuries if safe to do so.

Report to Vetted

Use in-app reporting tools whenever possible because they help us quickly locate accounts and content. You can also contact us at vetted@rezschaefer.com. If you contact by email, include: your account phone/email, the other user’s profile name, and screenshots if available.

National crisis resources

If you need support, these services can help:

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 (US) — 988lifeline.org
• Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 — crisistextline.org
• The Trevor Project (LGBTQ youth crisis support): Call 1-866-488-7386; Text START to 678678 — thetrevorproject.org
• RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673
• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
• Trans Lifeline: 1-877-565-8860
• National Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-888-373-7888; Text 233733 (BEFREE)

Reporting to Law Enforcement

When to consider filing a police report

Consider contacting law enforcement when there are threats of violence, stalking, extortion, sexual assault, theft, credible threats to out you, or situations where you believe someone else may be in immediate danger. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

What information to gather

If you choose to report, it can help to have:

• screenshots of the profile, messages, and threats;
• the meetup location and approximate time;
• description of the person and any identifying details you remember;
• any witnesses, receipts, rideshare logs, or photos you have.

Vetted’s cooperation with law enforcement

We may cooperate with valid legal requests and may preserve evidence to comply with law and protect safety. We may also act to preserve evidence in response to credible threats or severe harm reports. See our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service for more on disclosures and retention.

Restraining orders and legal protection

Courts in most jurisdictions provide processes for protective orders in certain circumstances. If you are considering legal protections, you may want to consult a victim advocate or legal aid organization in your area.

Cyber harassment and stalking

Online harassment and stalking can be illegal. Most jurisdictions have laws covering repeated unwanted contact, including contact via electronic communication. If you are being harassed or stalked, document it and seek help.

This section is not legal advice. Laws change and the right option depends on your situation. If you are unsure, start with a victim advocate hotline (listed in Resources) who can help you understand options.

Our Moderation Practices

What we scan and monitor

To help protect the community, Vetted uses automated systems designed to detect safety and policy risks. This can include:

• automated scanning of uploaded media for NSFW content and potential policy violations;
• automated detection of spam and scam patterns;
• signals suggesting automation or bot-like behavior;
• signals suggesting location spoofing or fraudulent use.

Automated systems can make mistakes. We use them to prioritize and reduce harm, not to replace judgment.

How reports are reviewed

Reports are reviewed by human moderators, often with support from automated context (such as relevant content and account history). We may take action based on one severe incident or based on patterns across multiple reports.

Enforcement ladder

Enforcement is designed to match severity and risk. Depending on the situation, actions can include:

• warning and education;
• content removal;
• feature restrictions (messaging, discovery, Private Photos access);
• shadow ban (visibility limits);
• temporary suspension; and
• permanent ban.

Zero-tolerance behaviors

Certain behaviors may result in immediate and permanent action, including: content involving minors (CSAM), credible threats of violence, sexual exploitation, human trafficking, and serious non-consensual content violations.

Cooperation and external reporting

We may cooperate with law enforcement and may report certain content externally where legally required—especially content involving minors. We may preserve evidence to support investigations and safety enforcement.

What we cannot see

We cannot see what happens off-platform unless you report it to us and provide details. We can’t prevent someone from sharing screenshots outside the app. We also cannot access data stored only on your device outside the app’s normal operation. This is why using layered safety practices matters.

Community Responsibility

Look out for each other

Community safety is not only about enforcement—it’s also about culture. You can help by:

• respecting boundaries and consent (online and offline);
• not pressuring others for private information or photos;
• not using threats, outing, or humiliation as leverage;
• avoiding retaliation through false reports or harassment;
• checking in on friends who are meeting someone new.

Report harm even if you weren’t the victim

If you see predatory behavior, scams, or harassment patterns, report it. Reporting helps protect others—even if you personally can handle the situation.

Don’t weaponize safety tools

Safety tools exist to reduce harm. Using reports to harass or retaliate undermines community trust and may lead to enforcement action.

Resources

The list below includes emergency, crisis, and support resources. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

Emergency

• Emergency (Police/Fire/Medical): 911

Sexual assault support

• RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673

Domestic violence support

• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

LGBTQ+ specific support

• The Trevor Project (LGBTQ youth crisis support): Call 1-866-488-7386; Text START to 678678; Chat via their website
• Trans Lifeline: 1-877-565-8860
• LGBT National Hotline (peer support): 888-843-4564

Mental health and crisis support

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 — 988lifeline.org
• Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 — crisistextline.org
• SAMHSA National Helpline (mental health/substance use treatment referrals): 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
• Veterans Crisis Line: Dial 988 then Press 1, or text 838255

Human trafficking support

• National Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-888-373-7888; Text 233733 (BEFREE)

Sexual health resources

• CDC STI/HIV Testing Locator: gettested.cdc.gov
• CDC PrEP information: cdc.gov/hiv/prevention/prep.html
• CDC STI information: cdc.gov/std

Contact

If you have safety concerns, you can report in-app (Profile or Chat) and you can contact us at vetted@rezschaefer.com.

If you are in immediate danger, call 911 first. Vetted is not emergency services, and app-based tools (including Safety Check-In) are not guaranteed to work in every situation.

For more information about rules and enforcement, see our Community Guidelines, Terms of Service, and Privacy Policy.